The Blog

Enjoy these insights on the psychology of men, women, and marriage.

Managing Your Stress Level: Decreasing Anxiety

Hi guys, Dr. Debi here. Have you noticed how anxious people have become over the past few years? Did you know that anxiety is often expressed with angry words? No wonder we’re having such a hard time ...

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Unlocking The Mystery Of The Man Cave: Is It Just Another Form Of Stonewalling?

An understanding of men necessarily includes a healthy respect for the Man Cave. But as women we typically have a really hard time with it. We have nothing to compare it to, so it simply doesn’t make ...

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Is It Possible To Change A Man?

How can a woman change a man? More specifically, how can she help her husband become a better man? Women want to see their husbands grow, but there is a trick to the process if you want to change a ma...

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Exploring Marriage And Mental Health

Do you wonder about your marriage and mental health issues your mate may have? Perhaps your mate's mental health is what brought you to seek marriage counseling.

When seeking marriage help, you must...

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Why Do Husbands Hate Coming Home From Work?

Why Some Men Hate Coming Home From Work ... and How to Change That at Your House

Being late might be a sign your husband dreads coming home from work. Today he is late again. He finally walks in t...

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Do you know the secrets to decoding your wife?

Most men don't, which is totally understandable.

Your wife is not at all like you ... way beyond your physical differences.

Because your wife has a very different set of life experiences, your wif...

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How Do You Get Your Husband to Do What You Want Him to Do?

Do you ever feel like your husband doesn't help out enough around the house? Many women I've met share that frustration, especially those with small children. I've heard stories of women getting frust...

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The Number One Reason Your Wife Isn’t Submissive

So why isn’t your wife submissive? I’ve heard this complaint from men a lot. Many times, they simply say she is disrespectful. Your solution is the same for both. 

In reality, a woman has no problem ...

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Husband Improvement

Most women can't understand their husbands. And it's no wonder they are so confused. There is so much misinformation floating around about who men really are. Plus, what women already "know" can get i...

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Misunderstandings In Marriage: Lost In Translation

Mistranslation leads to more misunderstandings in marriage than any other factor. We make assumptions from our mate's external behavior, which is usually defensive and leads to misunderstandings in ma...

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Uncover the Mystery of Men

You married one of the good guys.
But his behavior doesn't make sense.

  • Why does he spend so much time at work?
  • Why doesn’t he want to spend time with you anymore?
  • And what is he thinking about th
  • ...
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The Surprising Ways Men And Women Communicate Differently

Men and women communicate differently. Consequently, they often have difficulty understanding what the other person is trying to communicate. Men are more sensitive than women realize. Plus, words hav...

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