Discovering the Dance of Life
with Dr. Debi
Man, Woman, and the Psychology of Marriage
6-Week Core Curriculum
The core curriculum is a research-based, psychological exploration of men, women, and marriage, drawn from decades of teaching, writing, and clinical work.
Its purpose is educational — to teach you how relationships form, why couples struggle, and how understanding and appreciating the differences between men and women can empower you to transform your own experience of loving and being loved.Â
Overview
This research-based core curriculum examines the psychological foundations of an intimate relationship. Drawing from developmental psychology, attachment theory, gender research, and decades of teaching and clinical experience, this curriculum explores how a man and a woman are shaped by biology, life experience, and their social environment — and how these factors impact marital dynamics.
Together, we will examine foundational beliefs about life, the formation of relationship expectations, the developmental transition into marriage, the psychological features of masculinity and femininity, and recurring patterns in communication, emotion, and intimacy.
Emphasis is placed on increasing self-awareness, understanding gender differences, and applying psychological insight to real-life relational challenges.
Each module includes an introduction to the topic, multiple structured lessons, an experiment to try, and guided reflection designed to translate knowledge into personal insight and practical understanding.
Objectives
As a result of completing this 6-week study, you will be equipped to:Â
- Identify your core beliefs about life and love.
- Apply a practical framework to elevate realistic expectations and relational outcomes.
- Recognize current relationship dynamics and apply strategies to change disruptive patterns.Â
- Demonstrate a foundational understanding of Attachment Theory and how it explains your couple pattern.
- Describe the foundations of a man's worldview and how it differs from a woman's.
- Identify meaningful differences between male and female language usage.Â
- Explain differences in male and female emotional experience and expression.Â
- Articulate a man's unspoken emotional needs and decode what a woman wants.
- Recognize and repair disruptions in intimate connection before they escalate.Â
- Integrate self-awareness with personal and relational growth.
Weekly Modules:
Module 1Â is available immediately.
Remaining modules are released weekly over the following 6 weeks.
Module 1. Your Love Story Matters

How Life Experience Has Shaped the Life You’re Living Now
Module 2. In the Beginning

The Dreams You Carry — and What Happens After “I Do”
Module 3. Embracing the Dance

The Psychology of Relationships
Module 4. The Wonder of a Man

The Psychology of Masculinity
Module 5. The Beauty of a Woman

The Psychology of Femininity
Module 6. Different Worlds Under the Same Roof

Communication, Emotion, and Intimacy
Module 7. Perfecting the Dance

How to Live in Love Without Losing Yourself
Man, Woman, and the Psychology of Marriage
6-Week Core Curriculum
- 7 teaching modules total
- New module released weekly
- Ongoing access to all modules
Cost: $247
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Is this the right fit for you right now?
This curriculum is designed for men and women who want to upgrade how they understand themselves, their mate, and life itself. It is not intended to address situations involving active abandonment, abuse, addiction, or adultery. Those circumstances require specialized support and focused intervention. This program is about personal growth and relational understanding. It cannot control another adult’s choices — and it is not a strategy to win someone back, force change, or repair a crisis.
If you are ready to grow — regardless of what your mate chooses — you are in the right place.