How I Use Prepare-Enrich

Men and women are different by design.
Always have been. Always will be.

And yet, they want the same thing: a healthy, connected, meaningful marriage.

The challenge isn’t a lack of desire — it’s misunderstanding how those differences actually show up in everyday life together.

In this video, I explain how I use the Prepare-Enrich assessment with couples who are interested in working on their personal and couple growth together. The assessment provides a set of visual reports that offer a snapshot of current strengths, along with areas that may need focused attention.

However, I don’t use it “out of the box.”

Instead, I’ve designed my own set of skill-building exercises to help couples recognize how their gender differences show up across four key relationship dynamics—dynamics that directly affect communication, conflict resolution, and emotional connection.

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