Man. Woman. Marriage.

Man. Woman. Marriage.

Hosted by: Dr. Debi Smith, PsyD

A man and a woman are different by design. Each experiences life differently. Together, they spark the synergy that creates sweet harmony. Sometimes they’re out of sync and feel like a complete mismatch. But...

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It's Time to Stop Working on Your Marriage

Marriage isn’t something you fix — it’s something you create. In this episode, Dr. Debi explains why loving and growing as individuals is what actually builds a strong, meaningful marriage — and how emotionally...
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Gender Differences in Marriage Explained

Men and women are different by design—but which gender is more complicated? Dr. Debi explores how men and women process emotion, silence, and stress differently, and why understanding must come before being...
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Couple Communication: Why Understanding Must Come Before Being Understood

Why does communication break down in marriage? Dr. Debi explains why understanding must come before being understood — and how learning the right sequence transforms connection between husbands and wives. Download 3...
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Does a 21st Century Woman Want a Hero?

In today’s world, women no longer need men to survive — but that raises an important question. Does a 21st century woman still want a hero? In this episode, Dr. Debi explores how modern independence has impacted...
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Wired to Love and Be Loved: Part 2 — Gender Differences

Men and women are shaped very differently by biology and early socialization. In this episode, Dr. Debi explores how emotional development in boys and girls leads to common adult relationship patterns — and how...
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Wired to Love and Be Loved: Part 1 — Becoming Attached

How do early experiences shape the way you connect in love? In Part 1 of Wired to Love and Be Loved, Dr. Debi explains Attachment Theory and how a baseline relationship framework forms in childhood—shaping how you...
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When Romance Dies: Is the Honeymoon Over?

Romance doesn’t usually die from conflict — it fades through resignation. In this reflective episode, Dr. Debi explores why romance so often disappears long before love is gone, and why marriage was always meant to be...
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When You’ve Tried Everything Else

When you’ve tried counseling, conversations, compromises, and everything you know to do — and nothing has worked — something vital is missing. In this episode, Dr. Debi explains why couples feel stuck despite their...
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Why Women Often Feel Alone Even in Good Marriages

A wife can feel lonely even in a good marriage. Here’s why that happens—and what husbands can do to reconnect without pressure or blame. START HERE ► https://RevolutionaryMarriageCoaching.com 👉 Wives: Download...
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The Moment He Feels Disrespected

A husband often feels disrespected in tiny moments a wife doesn’t even notice. Here’s why those micro-moments matter so much—and how understanding them can transform your connection. START HERE ►...
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How He Reads Her Tears

Discover why her tears trigger defensive anger—and how she can express what she needs and wants in a way that he can hear and understand. Want to understand each other in ways that actually work? START HERE ►...
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When He’s Stressed at Work

When he’s stressed, he needs her more—not less. Learn how loving presence grounds his nervous system and restores connection. Download Understanding Him and Understanding Her at...
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