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Enjoy these insights on the psychology of men, women, and marriage.

The Ultimate Power Couple Advantage: A New Vision for Your Marriage Aug 10, 2025

Are you a power couple?

You’ve achieved so much in life—why settle for anything less than extraordinary in your marriage? If you’re tired of feeling like your gender differences are pulling you a...

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One Essential Rule For Decoding Women: What Every Man Needs To Know Dec 20, 2024

What Every Man Needs to Know

Most men genuinely want to love their wives well.
And most women genuinely want to feel close, safe, and connected.

The trouble begins when those two desires miss each ot...

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Why Men Shut Down Dec 17, 2024

Many women describe the same painful experience:
the man they love avoids emotional conversations, shuts down when feelings surface, or responds with logic when what they really want is connection.

Th...

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What Men Really Want: Unlocking the Mystery of the Male Mind Dec 03, 2024

If you ask a woman what men really want, you will get one answer. If you ask a man what really men want, you will get a different answer — sort of. But more than 20 years of observations have taugh...

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Managing Your Stress Level: Decreasing Anxiety Oct 29, 2024

Hi guys, Dr. Debi here. Have you noticed how anxious people have become over the past few years? Did you know that anxiety is often expressed with angry words? No wonder we’re having such a hard time ...

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Unlocking The Mystery Of The Man Cave: Is It Just Another Form Of Stonewalling? Sep 10, 2024

An understanding of men necessarily includes a healthy respect for the Man Cave. But as women we typically have a really hard time with it. We have nothing to compare it to, so it simply doesn’t make ...

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Is It Possible To Change A Man? Sep 03, 2024

How can a woman change a man? More specifically, how can she help her husband become a better man? Women want to see their husbands grow, but there is a trick to the process if you want to change a ma...

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Exploring Marriage And Mental Health Aug 26, 2024

Do you wonder about your marriage and mental health issues your mate may have? Perhaps your mate's mental health is what brought you to seek marriage counseling.

When seeking marriage help, you must...

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Why Do Husbands Hate Coming Home From Work? Aug 26, 2024

Why Some Men Hate Coming Home From Work ... and How to Change That at Your House

Being late might be a sign your husband dreads coming home from work. Today he is late again. He finally walks in t...

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Do you know the secrets to decoding your wife? Aug 20, 2024

Most men don't, which is totally understandable.

Your wife is not at all like you ... way beyond your physical differences.

Because your wife has a very different set of life experiences, your wif...

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How Do You Get Your Husband to Do What You Want Him to Do? Jul 21, 2024

Do you ever feel like your husband doesn't help out enough around the house? Many women I've met share that frustration, especially those with small children. I've heard stories of women getting frust...

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The Number One Reason Your Wife Isn’t Submissive Jul 20, 2024

So why isn’t your wife submissive? I’ve heard this complaint from men a lot. Many times, they simply say she is disrespectful. Your solution is the same for both. 

In reality, a woman has no problem ...

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