The Blog
Enjoy these insights on the psychology of men, women, and marriage.
One of the most painful experiences in marriage isn’t outright conflict—it’s misunderstanding.
Not the everyday kind, like forgetting an appointment or mishearing a detail, but the deeper kind.
The ki...
There is a relationship pattern I see again and again.
It is one of the most painful dynamics couples fall into. And sadly, even when they seek help, many professionals do not recognize what is actua...
Many couples look put-together on the outside… yet feel more like roommates than soulmates on the inside. If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone — and there is hope.
Living Like Roommates
On t...
Today we’re talking about something every couple faces:
challenges that pull you apart instead of drawing you closer.
No matter how in love two people are, challenges will show up.
That’s just li...
Are you a power couple?
You’ve achieved so much in life—why settle for anything less than extraordinary in your marriage? If you’re tired of feeling like your gender differences are pulling you a...
Do you ever feel like you and your mate are speaking two completely different languages?
You try to explain something important, but somehow the message gets lost. Conversations stall. Feelings get h...
What Every Man Needs to Know
Most men genuinely want to love their wives well.
And most women genuinely want to feel close, safe, and connected.
The trouble begins when those two desires miss each ot...
Many women describe the same painful experience:
the man they love avoids emotional conversations, shuts down when feelings surface, or responds with logic when what they really want is connection.
Th...
If you ask a woman what men really want, you will get one answer. If you ask a man what really men want, you will get a different answer — sort of. But more than 20 years of observations have taugh...
Hi guys, Dr. Debi here. Have you noticed how anxious people have become over the past few years? Did you know that anxiety is often expressed with angry words? No wonder we’re having such a hard time ...
An understanding of men necessarily includes a healthy respect for the Man Cave. But as women we typically have a really hard time with it. We have nothing to compare it to, so it simply doesn’t make ...
How can a woman change a man? More specifically, how can she help her husband become a better man? Women want to see their husbands grow, but there is a trick to the process if you want to change a ma...
